In 2016, I discovered the hidden reason why love wasn’t working for me. This discovery helped me close the gap and attract soul-connected love that mainstream methods were failing to do.
The old ways of dating wasn't working...
I had to solve it because I was unwilling to waste any more time, give up, or settle on my dream of meeting the love of my life.
(and up till then, I had zero success with holding even a situationship for over 6 months max.)
I always felt more insecure, and heartbroken, never understanding what I was doing wrong.
And it wasn't like I was undesirable...
where at the end of the “next party”, I was still alone, barely moving any closer to having my dream.
But upon discovering this hidden reason, everything changed.
I finally understood why love wasn’t working and this time it was tangible enough for me to create a system that was a mix of both science and healing…
(from all the knowledge I accumulated over the years from the many teachers, mentors and healers I regularly worked with)
AND IT WORKED.
Here's what happened next...
I went from wanting to be in a lasting relationship for almost 7 years to attracting my soulmate in one of the busiest periods of my then-life in New York City, in less than 3 months, and getting married within a year.
Let that timeline sink in…
I went from: 7 years to 3 months
Hi, I am Lucy Shahjahan, and the first photo is taken from our wedding day (2016), and the second one is of my soulmate family (2025).
And, because my process is an experiential one
(not an intellectual exercise, or theory)
it became the actionable steps (“the how to”) for my clients to attract deep soul-connected love for themselves.
The feedback I always get is this:
“Lucy, I’ve never attracted this type of [high-caliber] man before”.
If you are reading this right now and you know your way hasn’t been working, then…
It's time to accept that...
mainstream methods for dating, and finding love
– isn’t working for you –
(like it didn’t for me)
Translation: Like me, you are unwilling to settle, or recreate/recycle your past traumas from childhood, and failed relationships…
– especially the ones that shaped your first impressions of love –
(the relationship between your mom, dad, and you)
Then in that case, you are definitely in the right place.
Here's what you can take away from this conversation...
Discovering the tangible reason of why I was single gave me the breakthrough I needed,
and I want to offer you this quick breakthrough as well…
95% of your brain’s activity is happening subconsciously.
This percentage matters because there are invisible forces within that 95% that have been custom designed (by you subconsciously)
to sabotage and jeopardize your relationships
keeping you from love, all in the name of “self-protection”
(even when there isn’t any REAL threat.)
Said another way: If I was to send your soulmate to your door right now, you would most likely end up sabotaging that relationship…
Maybe not on date 1 or date 2, but eventually that relationship will get jeopardized
due to these unresolved invisible forces.
Many couples can make it to marriage, and kids, but then the path eventually ends with divorce.
(Divorce rates today are very high, with financial and emotional costs even higher, especially with kids getting hurt the most, recycling traumas into the next generation.
The good news is this...
With the right tools, you can undo it all and create a new relationship with love in a short amount of time.
This is what I did to attract my soulmate, and exactly what I’ve been mentoring women to do to attract theirs (since 2017).
My clients go from feeling that love is impossible to:
✅ Love feeling easy,
✅ Love feeling safe, and
✅ [Soulmate] Love becoming inevitable
By now you can probably tell that my solution has to do with deactivating the self-protection mechanisms within as a first step – so that a person of higher caliber, integrity, and authenticity, can access your heart, and meet you at your level.
I’ve created an Experiential Learning and Alignment 8-Week Process that can get immediate results.
Definition: Experiential learning is the process of learning through direct experience and reflection on that experience, allowing individuals to actively engage in their learning. It emphasizes hands-on activities and real-world applications rather than passive learning methods.
It is not talk-therapy.
Instead of writing about it, I’ve created a free video about this protection circuit that is blocking your ability to give and receive love.
Inside it, I also offer you the opportunity to access the exact process I use to get outcomes for my clients on a regular basis, called: The Queen’s Heart Protocol.
If you are ready to make soulmate love inevitable by deactivating your protection circuit click the button below and watch the video.
This book addresses the behaviours and patterns that lead to unhealthy and unaligned relationships.
If this is you, grab your copy as soon as possible.
Today they are celebrating love, and life, building their dream family with their soulmate by their side.
Click the button below, and I’ll see you on the other side.
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